Comments on: Sexuality and Gender http://ofsexandlove.com/2009/03/15/sexuality-and-gender/ ..but mostly sex Mon, 26 Jul 2010 15:39:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Sienna http://ofsexandlove.com/2009/03/15/sexuality-and-gender/comment-page-1/#comment-512 Sienna Fri, 20 Mar 2009 01:24:10 +0000 http://ofsexandlove.com/?p=707#comment-512 I'll have to read it - but my opinion is that sex and gender are generally exclusive. However when sex involves gender issues then it's a different story. You're discussing the how, why, where, when, what's of gender in sex. Does that explain it well?? I’ll have to read it – but my opinion is that sex and gender are generally exclusive. However when sex involves gender issues then it’s a different story. You’re discussing the how, why, where, when, what’s of gender in sex.

Does that explain it well??

]]> By: sxychikadee http://ofsexandlove.com/2009/03/15/sexuality-and-gender/comment-page-1/#comment-510 sxychikadee Tue, 17 Mar 2009 02:25:38 +0000 http://ofsexandlove.com/?p=707#comment-510 oooooo must go re-read other comments. :) oooooo
must go re-read other comments. :)

]]> By: Adriana http://ofsexandlove.com/2009/03/15/sexuality-and-gender/comment-page-1/#comment-509 Adriana Mon, 16 Mar 2009 23:39:25 +0000 http://ofsexandlove.com/?p=707#comment-509 Actually, it was not any comments of yours of which I was thinking when I posted this. However, it was a reply in that thread which seemed to indicate as such. Actually, it was not any comments of yours of which I was thinking when I posted this. However, it was a reply in that thread which seemed to indicate as such.

]]> By: sxychikadee http://ofsexandlove.com/2009/03/15/sexuality-and-gender/comment-page-1/#comment-508 sxychikadee Mon, 16 Mar 2009 14:18:11 +0000 http://ofsexandlove.com/?p=707#comment-508 Ummm... assuming you're speaking of my post about pronouns (?) Actually, it wasn't my intention to suggest that a community interested in sex is interested in discussing gender issues - it was more that I really had no idea how to write about my FTM partner in my reviews. The logistics can be frustrating. I generally see sex and gender as exclusive of each other, unless I am writing about a sexual experience with someone who doesn't fit into the binary male/female categories. When I write about those experiences, sex and gender are connected because I want to insure the gender of my partner is correctly identified out of respect to him. Honestly though - gender was something I didn't really consider much until I found myself involved in this relationship. Now gender is a subject of daily discussion in my world because it really is something we have to deal with daily. I hope that clarifies...at least some. I know I ramble and sometimes the point gets lost. :) Ummm… assuming you’re speaking of my post about pronouns (?)

Actually, it wasn’t my intention to suggest that a community interested in sex is interested in discussing gender issues – it was more that I really had no idea how to write about my FTM partner in my reviews. The logistics can be frustrating.

I generally see sex and gender as exclusive of each other, unless I am writing about a sexual experience with someone who doesn’t fit into the binary male/female categories. When I write about those experiences, sex and gender are connected because I want to insure the gender of my partner is correctly identified out of respect to him.

Honestly though – gender was something I didn’t really consider much until I found myself involved in this relationship. Now gender is a subject of daily discussion in my world because it really is something we have to deal with daily.

I hope that clarifies…at least some. I know I ramble and sometimes the point gets lost. :)

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