Move It Or Lose It

November 4th, 2009

Last night I am lying in bed and I am paging through sexual fantasies in my head, expanding some of them more than they have been expended before and I find I’m horny. I want sex but my husband has already been asleep for several hours. I ponder making a move but I don’t know what move I want to make. I don’t just want to make him up and say “Hey, want sex?” but I also don’t know what will wake him up and send the right message. So I toss and turn for a few hours until I cannot possibly stay away and longer and fall into a fitful sleep.

In a similar position, what is your foolproof move? Or, assuming you’re asleep and open to your partner making an advance, how would you like it done?


4 Comments to “Move It Or Lose It”

  • SaraBee says:

    I love to be woken for sex with kisses all over my face and neck, or soft nibbling on my ears. I am much more open to sex anytime (as long as it’s not the morning) than my partner, though, so I can’t remember ever having successfully woken him up for sex.

  • SleepingBoy says:

    ANy way would be fine. Some good ideas are oral, or just gently touching me. A little massage is fine. However, just climbing on top and getting started will get things going fine too!

  • Is this a trick question? You wake a man with a blowjob, of course! It’s also a surefire cure to stop snoring…

    http://thebeautifulkind.com/2009/01/22/succubus-or-how-to-make-your-man-stop-snoring/

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