Oil of Love – Raspberry Kiss

September 4th, 2009

What can I say about Kama Sutra products that hasn’t already been said? Their name is synonymous with sensuality and products are known for quality. So to say I was expecting an awesome product with their Oil of Love is an understatement, especially considering that I have literally wanted the product for years. It was one of the very first products I considered buying when my husband and I wanted to try new things with our sex life. I’m glad I finally tried the Oil of Love, even if it took years for me to do so and I can say without hesitation that this is one of the few products that is better than I expected.

Like other Kama Sutra products, the Oil of Love came in the green/gold tin, slightly smaller than a soda can, with a black cap. This tin was also in anopen-endedd plastic bag but, unfortunately, neither of those was sealed at the cap had popped off and was floating loose in the box. Inside the tin was the glass jar containing the oil, which is corked shut and sealed with plastic. Despite the seal, the bottle did feel slippery, as though it had oil on it already. I gave it a wipe down before opening to ensure the bottle wouldn’t slip out of my hands and break or spill all over. The only adornment on the bottle is a stick/band which goes around it with a floral motif and the Kama Sutra logo/Oil of Love label on the front. What you mostly see is a gorgeous dark fuchsia colour of the oil itself and while it might be a bit more purple than I would expect for something raspberry, it’s gorgeous to look through the liquid.

After breaking the seal and popping the cork (which doesn’t require anything near the strength of a wine bottle, thankfully), the scent isn’t immediately noticeable. Overall, I found the scent to be light and refreshing, never overpowering. The scent becomes discernible after a bit of friction by either rubbing the oil in my hands or on another body part. It was also much more noticeable to me as a massage giver than receiver, probably because I kept leaning forward to kiss and lick my husband’s back. As the receiver, I was a little disappointed that I could not smell it better, though.

Unfortunately, I have to say that this smells nothing at all like a kiss of raspberry as the scent – Raspberry Kiss – would suggest. It smells wonderful and sweet but not berry-like in the least. In fact, I think a perfect suggestion for this scent would be vanilla cotton candy and my husband agrees. It’s a great scent, just misleading.

So I mentioned the kissing and licking, yes? It’s because the Oil of Love is also flavoured! The Oil of Love have a sweet flavour that is reminiscent and very complimentary to it’s scent (in this case, vanilla cotton candy), to provide that much more experience. Really, it almost tastes like candy and I have half a mind to drink the bottle, but won’t.

But that’s not all!

It also warms upon blowing which just adds another element of excitement to your massage. I don’t think this property was as noticeable to my husband or myself as the receiver but I definitely noticed the heat on my mouth/face when I leaned down to blow. This could just be because our backs are not as sensitive and I know that the fan was on during my massage so it may have been a little counterproductive. Kissing and licking also seemed to activate the heat so that’s another plus.

We’re not into giving really long massages and you probably won’t get hours out of one application of the Oil of Love as it is a bit thicker/heavier (that is, if you don’t lick it all off first). I probably massaged between 10 and 20 minutes with one application and it definitely made it easier to manipulate my husband’s skin. When it was my turn, it also improved his – usually awful – technique and helped him to not be so rough (although I’m still training him). It did get a bit sticky on my hands toward the end but we were both able to dress without feeling the need to wash off the oil from our skins.

I found that it really doesn’t work very well for hand jobs. It becomes too sticky for the quick motions and works much better for a luxurious massage. While the tin states that this product is latex safe (because it’s water and not oil based as one might think(, it also warns not to use it internally so I would shy away from using it as actual lube.

You’ll be relieved to know that Oil of Love is non-staining, too, because, no matter how hard I try, I am a messy person. After massage time was over, I noticed pinky spots on the bed from the oil but they washed out in the laundry just fine.

I am more than blown away with this product, in the end. The few shortcomings absolutely pale in comparison to the scent, flavour, warming and non-staining properties. While Oil of Love may not be the perfect product for hours of massage, it couldn’t be more perfect for us.

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Sun Kissed Vanilla Massage Candle

January 21st, 2009

Even as I write this, the smell of the Suntouched Massage Candle is wafting through the air, gently delighting my nose. This soft waxed candle is made of natural products such as soybean and coconut oil, hemp and Vitamin E. You can rest assured nothing was tested on animals, making this a perfect product for those who are ecologically and environmentally aware. Because this candle burns at a lower temperate than regular candles, it’s suitable for body massages without being uncomfortable.

Nestled in a plain tin with cover (which fits perfectly under the tin when not in base, so you needn’t worry about misplacing it) and provided with a small, plastic spoon to aid in application, this is an all-in-one atmosphere setter. My favourite aspect of this is the scent which, oddly, is not listed on the package itself. It only says that it is a “3-in-1 Suntouched candle with hemp & soy” in the Skinny Dip line by Earthly Body. Nowhere does it say that the scent is vanilla except on TabuToys.

Thus, I took some time to try to divine what the scent was. Although vanilla is present, and it was the main scent my husband could detect, I smelled citrus, coconut and generally plant-like (but not floral scents). Overall, this 6 ounce candle has a hint of creamsicle to it. I bet I have your attention now!

This is a very soft waxed candle and I can easily leave an impression by pressing my finger into the wax. It melts rather quickly – I was able to use the melted liquid for massage about 5 – 10 minutes after I lit it. I have even rubbed a bit of the solid wax on my skin as moisturizer. However, for an actual massage liquid, give it some time to melt.

I lit this candle, as well as others around the bedroom and a soft glow enveloped us. It was a very romantic and sensual setting and the scent in the air was heavenly. Although I had other scented candles lit and I have both an air freshener and reed diffuser in our room, the massage candle really stood out scent-wise. Of course, it was closest to us but this is powerfully, but not obnoxiously, perfumed. I imagine having a lid for the tin helps to lengthen the shelf life of scent as well as prevents the candle from drying out.

My husband was worried about the wax being too hot but the soft candle melted at a very reasonable temperature. I dipped my fingers in the pool of wax while the candle was even still lit (carefully, of course) and it wasn’t uncomfortable at all. We also used the candle by pouring it directly on the skin and my husband used the application spoon but I found that to be less useful than you might think. I found it to be small and flimsy and was worried about dripping massage oil on the bed and floor when moving the spoon from candle to skin. Overall, I thought the best way to apply the oil was using my own hands.

Coupled together, the massage oil and scented candle made for a very sensual message. I used the oil to rub down my husband’s arms, shoulders and back and it was a very nice product. I can easily feel the moisturizer, which is a recommended use for this massage candle, as I rubbed his skin. My hands glided easily and the oil never became sticky, goopy or dry. It rubbed easily into the skin and neither of us felt the need to wash it off afterward. In fact, this might be a good product to dab on your skin before going out (or staying in!) to add just a little bit of allure.

I didn’t give the longest massage (perhaps 15 minutes?) but a little did go a long way. I dipped my fingers in the oil twice, initially, and that lasted me fine. Longer massages may require more oil or a reapplication but I definitely think this worked more efficiently than other massage products we have used.

Sadly, I suspect this candle will not have a long life if only because I love it so much that I will be using it as a candle and atmosphere aid. Even just having it lit while we were intimate heightened the mood in the room deliciously and I find myself occasionally just smelling the candle.

The one thing I did notice is that the wick needs to constantly trimmed which I should do with all my candles, but usually don’t. The Sun Kissed Vanilla Massage Candle will be one I keep up on maintenance because I really have no need for soot and ash when it comes to massaging. There is already a bit of discolouration to the candle so I will have to be more vigilant in the future.

Overall, this was an excellent product. It was a good candle, an excellent massage cream and a quality moisturizer which will definitely add something extra to your intimate times.

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