Comments on: Heartbreak is Hell on the Sex Drive

By: My Sex Life Can Legally Vote - of Sex and Love

My Sex Life Can Legally Vote - of Sex and Love — Wed, 04 Feb 2015 00:03:23 +0000

[…] 5 years ago, my marriage started to crumble. Although masturbation was much the same, my sex life would change forever when the divroce was finalized a little over 4 years ago. For months, I would struggled to be aroused and masturbate without fantasizing about my ex, an issue I still face when dealing with heartbreak. […]

By: Adriana

Adriana — Thu, 04 Dec 2014 19:32:36 +0000

In reply to Dan. Thanks for your kind words, Dan. It's interesting how we're all different, isn't it? I don't recall these feelings being so intense when I was married, so it's probably still because how new and.. inconsistent sex was with the bartender.

By: Dan

Dan — Tue, 02 Dec 2014 18:52:24 +0000

Hang in there dear Adriana. Things will get better. Time heals.
As a man in a good marriage many years I found your post on wanking most fascinating. As my woman and I confessed a few years back we seldom if ever think of each other while masturbating; but others. And we both have agreed to wank alone at least once a week to stay on top of our game erotically as lovers. We admitted of late beyond the wank that we don’t usually think of each other when reaching for a climax during nuptial sex either. I guess we both need some naughty to come. So, your experience needing to think of your partner (now gone) during solo sex and having lost him, losing your solo practice? Sad. What you brought up interests me as I’m working on a book Confessions Of A Married Masturbator and because most married guys continue to wank on as you know; yet often without the support of their spouse.
Thanks for getting our minds going this morning. Here’s wishing you all the Eros you deserve. Blog on.