Comments on: Laws of Attraction

By: Dan

Dan — Sun, 09 Feb 2014 02:36:56 +0000

Sorry for posting again but my lady and I were talking about two dates I had years back. One was a 40 min coffee. One was 21 hours including a naked sleepover. Attraction was the key. I had it with one, not the other. The loooooong date? I was attracted to her: mind, our conversation; our shared interest, that we were talking about sex and love and relationships, I was hungry, she was a “Sex Maven” who was published and famous. But we never had sex. Hmmmmmm. The point: attraction; even erotic attraction can happen or not on many levels, no?
I love your making us think about this.

By: becca

becca — Sat, 08 Feb 2014 05:51:04 +0000

I’ve gotten this way too in my late 20s. I blame it on biology. I think women get pickier as they get older as primal instinct. I’m not terribly interested in having kids but I think on a instinctive level, I’m on the lookout for the best possible mate.

By: Dan

Dan — Sat, 18 Jan 2014 18:09:12 +0000

when dating age 54 to 59, I was religious about my profile, editing it after every coffee date. What was it about her I liked/didn’t? How did I present myself that I liked/didn’t. Who am I in this dance here? What do I want? How hard do I want to play.
Plato said: “You can learn more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.”
You’ll do OK dear. Get well and ask yourself how bad you want it. And just what is the “it” that you want.
All the best.