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		<title>Wrapped Around Your Finger</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>from I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever reviewed a full-length piece of erotica before. I tend to stick to anthologies, and most of those stories are quite short indeed. I&#8217;ve avoided 50 Shades of Grey for reasons of sanity.  I&#8217;ve read the first book in the Sleeping Beauty series, but it&#8217;s not very long at [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I don&#8217;t know that I&#8217;ve ever reviewed a full-length piece of erotica before. I tend to stick to anthologies, and most of those stories are quite short indeed. I&#8217;ve avoided 50 Shades of Grey for reasons of sanity.  I&#8217;ve read the first book in the Sleeping Beauty series, but it&#8217;s not very long at all. In comparison, the approximately 225 pages of Wrapped Around Your Finger seems like a Tolkien tome. However, it&#8217;s really not that long. I read this cover to cover in 3 or 4 sittings, and in one of those I consumed at least half of the book.</p>
<p>Wrapped Around Your Finger is actually the third in a series about a BDSM relationship by Alison Tyler. It&#8217;s part fiction and part memoir, and I don&#8217;t personally know where the line is drawn, but I don&#8217;t think I want to know. That&#8217;s part of this illusion.  While this is the third in the series, you certainly don&#8217;t need to have read the first two. It might help clarify a few things, but it&#8217;s not necessary.</p>
<p>I started this book knowing nothing about submissive Samantha and her dominant partner, Jack, but it didn&#8217;t take long to get to know them and the dynamics of their relationships, which is 24/7 power exchange. Samantha is young, perhaps in a cliche, but Alison Tyler&#8217;s writes a character who is aware of this and what her well-to-do partner&#8217;s status means in regards to her youth and perhaps naivete.</p>
<p>In spite of that all, Samantha and Jack manage to pull off a relationship that allows them both to grow through power exchange and the introduction of Jack&#8217;s assistant Alex. Samantha isn&#8217;t blind or abused. She&#8217;s intelligent. In fact, she&#8217;s a sex writer in the story, and this plays out in her interactions with Jack.</p>
<p>Because of Jack&#8217;s money and status, the couple is afforded a somewhat more lavish life, which Samantha isn&#8217;t accustomed to, but it&#8217;s not limitless. Jack has connections, but he&#8217;s not magical. He has power and dominant characteristics, but this isn&#8217;t all he is. As the characters learn more about one another and themselves, we understand how intricate these relationships &#8212; any relationships &#8212; can be, and how that can both be damning and a blessing. This, folks, is good storytelling.</p>
<p>With the impending 50 Shades of Grey movie and a miniseries featuring Sleeping Beauty in all her erotic glory, I could see Samantha on screen. Not only do I think it would make a better movie, but I think that Ms. Tyler&#8217;s descriptive writing would work well in live action, especially when it comes to Samantha&#8217;s intricate outfits.</p>
<p>I cannot help but compare this to 50 Shades of Grey. There are obvious similarities, but skilled writing, more three-dimensional characters and general forethought on the part of the author makes this read both more interesting and more sexy. In fact, I can say that I am not a fan of Samantha&#8217;s personality or even her relationship with Jack as a whole, and I <em>still </em>found <a href="https://amzn.to/2FqfJBl" rel="external nofollow">Wrapped Around Your Finger</a> to be rather enjoyable. I would definitely recommend it to anyone who wants a more realistic view of BDSM or simply a sexy story that&#8217;s decently written.</p>
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		<title>Playing With Fire</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Aug 2011 13:09:12 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>from I don&#8217;t like to gush. For some reason, I feel like it takes away from my credibility as a reviewer but it&#8217;s hard not to, and I literally did gush, when reading Playing With Fire. This anthology is, without any doubt, my favorite erotica collection thus far. Usually, I open a book and like [&#8230;]</p>
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<p>I don&#8217;t like to gush. For some reason, I feel like it takes away from my credibility as a reviewer but it&#8217;s hard not to, and I literally <em>did </em>gush, when reading Playing With Fire. This anthology is, without any doubt, my favorite erotica collection thus far. Usually, I open a book and like one story or two; I find myself paging through numerous others or becoming distracted as I wonder &#8220;When does this story end?&#8221; or &#8220;What&#8217;s the point again?&#8221;</p>
<p>Playing With Fire is not actually full of books about fire play; although, there is fire. Alison Tyler has picked stories that deal with fire and heat, whether literally or metaphorically, to include in this collection. Sometimes the connection is strenuous, sometimes it&#8217;s simply one line in the story and other times the title is fire/heat-related, but that&#8217;s the general theme. There&#8217;s a lot of &#8220;what we&#8217;re doing is so hot&#8221; and &#8220;this is so hot that I cannot wait.&#8221; In fact, the not being able to wait is almost as much as a theme as heat.</p>
<p>The result is stories that vary in length and style&#8211;although, none are longer than a few pages&#8211;as well as content and delivery but most of them are to the point. The reader doesn&#8217;t have to wait long for the sexuality to happen and the authors are explicit in their depictions. I read this in only three or four sittings. I found it extremely difficult to put down <a href="https://amzn.to/2HVP4l9" rel="external nofollow">Playing With Fire</a> and I was disheartened the last time I picked it up because I had so few stories left.</p>
<p>My favorites include &#8220;Carrying a Torch,&#8221; in which the female protagonist is turned on by her boyfriend&#8217;s other lover after accidentally seeing them have sex. Sophia Valenti writes her character&#8217;s fantasies to life fantastically. Secondly, Teresa Noelle Roberts absolutely hit it out of the park with her scorcher &#8220;One Hundred Degrees in the Shade.&#8221; A New Yorker couple escape to a cabin in the summer&#8217;s heat and everything comes to a boil with a hot sex scene as a storm rages in the background. I loved it especially because I feel the electricity myself when it&#8217;s storming around me.</p>
<p>However, this is not the perfect book. For some reason, there are quite a few stories to which cheating is a theme. This makes me a little uncomfortable. I understand why it can be hot for some but I&#8217;ve been too close to that setting in real life to appreciate it in literature. While I enjoyed most of the stories, there are a few that I just particularly didn&#8217;t. The most disappointing is &#8220;Burned&#8221; by Michael Hemmingson. In this story, a young woman is writing a novel and the story moves back and forth between what&#8217;s happening in the novel and for the author. There&#8217;s some strange fourth-wall-breaking narration and the sex isn&#8217;t particularly sexy. It&#8217;s an interesting story but makes for bad erotica.</p>
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