Comments on: Time and Time Again

By: The Duchess

The Duchess — Mon, 26 Oct 2009 03:10:33 +0000

I don’t see why you can’t have both. Schedule sex at least once a week, and later in the week, just pounce and fool around. Hopefully if you don’t start out aroused, you will be soon enough!

By: Adriana

Adriana — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 12:20:12 +0000

We took a mid-post-writing cuddle break and I discussed this. It’s like, I want to have sex more but I don’t want to have it right now.

Anyway, constructive or not, thanks for commenting!
Sorry, forgot to add great post! Can’t wait to see your next post!

By: Adriana

Adriana — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 05:05:33 +0000

In reply to Rockin' With a Cock in. We took a mid-post-writing cuddle break and I discussed this. It's like, I want to have sex more but I don't want to have it right now. Anyway, constructive or not, thanks for commenting!

By: Rockin' With a Cock in

Rockin' With a Cock in — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 04:22:48 +0000

I really connected on this post. I feel this a lot, at least with the getting distracted and having scheduling problems. And we don’t even work long shifts, so I feel even more disorganized.

“Even if I want to, I just don’t get turned on at the drop of a hat and I know it’s frustrating for him ’cause he does. But planning can sometimes make it even harder to get where I need to be mentally, especially because I like sex to be spontaneous.”

That is so me. And even when we do plan to have sex, for me it’s usually more like “Well, I’ll plan to try to be horny at that time…we’ll see.” I wish I had something constructive to say.