Welcome to Of Sex and Love, the personal site of Adriana Ravenlust, sex blogger extraordinaire.

I’m a mostly straight woman in my late twenties, divorced and single.  I’m a freelance writer by day and a blogger by night. Somewhere in between I test vibrators (re: masturbate), enjoy some serious flirting and keep up to date on the latest sex tech. I spend too much time watching TV, playing video games and talking to/about my cats.

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I suppose you could say that I’ve seen enough of life and become jaded enough to not believe in fairy tales, happy endings or true love. The romantic in me still holds out hope that life will prove me wrong and I’m tentatively stepping into the dating pool. However, I really want someone who can hit and fuck me hard enough to make it worth my while. I would rather not have sex if it’s not going to hit the metaphorical spot.

Sex has been an interest of mine since well before I could legally fuck. Like a true geek, my fanaticism extends to sex.  Sexual health, education, technology and pleasure are all topics that interest me. Because of that, I started Of Sex and Love in 2008. Since then, I have tried hundreds of toys, tied up my partners, been on the receiving end of BDSM and learned how to squirt. I’ve also had the opportunity to help my fellow bloggers figure out their way around a blog, something I’ve been doing for over 10 years.

This is a creative outlet designed for me to explore two of my greater interests – sex and writing – both of which I’d like to think I have an affinity for. You can expect here articles about sexuality, reviews of sex toys, sex toy giveaways, opinions and writings of my sexual experiences, which now include adventures in  dating. The most disappointing toys I’ve used comprise this list. To view my favorite sex toys, accessories, erotica and lingerie, check out the 5 star products.

My opinions are especially strong when it comes to human sexuality. I am pro sex toys, porn, Tumblr, sex education, social media, reviews, feminism, equality, bondage and kink, just to name a few. I support all sexual behavior that is safe, sane and consensual. I am against unhealthy and unsafe materials, misogyny, cheesy packaging, rape culture, and faux-luxury sex that toys do a disservice to other consumers who may not have the experience that I do.

If you need to contact me for whatever reason, contact me.