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BDSM Zapper 2.0 by Kink
$49.99
from Kink Store
When I got the chance to review the Zapper 2.0 by Kink, I had to say yes. I’ve only got a few electricity toys, including this Neon Wand. But while the Zapper might fall in the same overall category, it works much differently.
Rather than seeing the current running down the glass accessories, the Zapper has two metal prongs that make contact with your, er, victim. Much like a cattle prod. There are three settings, which I tried from low to high because I’m not that much of a masochist. The site describes the settings as having a range between 1.5kV and 3.5kV, which I assume are low and high, respectively. I assume the medium is somewhere between 2 and 2.5kv given the low and high power levels. A common static shock is usually between 3 and 10kV, to give you some idea of what we’re talking about. Like a static shock, the Zapper produces a momentary sensation. It’s over as fast as it begins.
My experience of each setting goes like this
Honestly, I don’t mind that the highest setting has more bark than bite. It will still make someone jump. I think you can do a lot of mindfucking with this system, either threatening to turn it to high or switching between settings without letting your partner know what you’re choosing. And if you want to increase the sensation, you can always focus the Zapper on the same body part more than once or by using it in conjunction with another sensation or impact play device. The visible welts make it clear where the most impact has occurred. Layering the types of stimulation can have a synergetic effect, or you could use the Zapper on one body part while doing something else to a different body part.
The Zapper feels rather safe because it’s producing electricity similar to a static shock, which we’ve all experienced at some point. We’re not talking about high power, but you could only stick to below the belt if you want to be extra safe (although, I think using it on the nipple could be a ton of fun!).
The rubberized grip also makes it easy to hold, especially because it’s not tiny. It’s 15 inches long total, and the grip has a 1.25″ diameter. It feels significant in my small hands and doesn’t require a precise grip, which might be helpful for those with motor issues. The downside is that it’s not discreet. Someone will definitely see it in your hand if you’re in front of them and they’re not blindfolded. But that can be part of the fun!
The website clearly states that you should not
The second version of this toy offers some necessary safety improvements that prevent the Zapper from discharging when not in use. You need to press and hold the button, which turns on a red light, to create the charge before placing it against the skin. It won’t discharge without holding that button, which I appreciate. This is especially important because you don’t want it discharging while handling, traveling or cleaning. And you may want a damp cloth to wipe down the toy if it gets bodily fluids on it or, say, your cat sneezes all over it (gross!).
Overall, the two buttons–one to switch strength and one to charge–are easy to use, even if you don’t read any instructions. In fact, the least intuitive thing I found is that the Zapper 2.0 still uses two AA batteries, which are included. I’m so accustomed to modern toys being rechargeable that this took me by surprise. But the company explained that this decision allowed them to have appropriate voltage. The battery cap does screw off the bottom like ye olde vibrators, however, so it’s not tricky.
I was curious about the number of discharges, which the company informed me is about 300 with fully charged batteries. That’s potentially a lot of use. It all depends on how often and how you use the Zapper. I’ve only used a few dozen for testing purposes. I can’t imagine how long it would take me to drain the batteries! I expect the Zapper will remain charged and waiting for me for quite some time.
As I wrap this up, I want to mention that the rubberized material does show smudges easily, and they like to stick. I tried to remove some from mine to take a photo, but they were stubborn. Not that it impacts use, of course. Just makes photos a little more difficult (and I already struggled due to its length). But I expect if you’re using this, photos won’t be your main concern.
Funzze Round Shape Handheld Massager
$39.99
from Funzze
Psst, you can get 30% off sitewide from Funzze until December 1st! Just head to their site and the discount will apply in your cart.
By now, my long-term readers should know that I prefer clitoral stimulation and need a lot of pressure, which is hard on my fingers, that already struggle with sniffiness, even if the toy is plush. So I’m always on the lookout for vibrators that seem like they might work well with my preferences and needs. This leads me to dislike toys that place buttons exactly where I want to press to get some pressure.. and to try some interesting toys, like the Pleasure Tops, Tuyo, or even Lelo’s Ora.
This vibrator by Funzze appeared to fit the bill. The rounded, wider base attaches to a smaller rounded handle, which boasts the button. The design looked to have enough room for your fingers, unlike some that are supposedly designed for this purpose but don’t leave enough room for your fingers. I was also intrigued by the broader base.
So how does it hold up in person?
Upon unboxing, I immediately realized the neck of this toy was flexible, so it wouldn’t serve my purposes for getting a lot of pressure. Bummer. Especially because the knob has nearly a 2-inch diameter, which could relieve some tension on my fingers if the neck were (nearly) rigid. As a result, I wound up using my fingers to press down on the toy in such a way that was awkward and uncomfortable.
I can’t discuss the shape of the vibrator without mentioning the vibrations. Unfortunately, they’re rather weak and buzzy, not unlike the Finger Vibe. Funzze has some decent designs that would be hard to beat if the vibrations were stronger and deeper. For anyone who really needs that, including me, this toy and brand might be a miss. Because of the lackluster vibrations, I found simply placing the vibrator against my body was underwhelming.
Instead, I found it more stimulating to use the toy at an angle with the edge between my labia. Eventually, I was able to get off, but it took a bit of time and effort, and I would have done just as well with my hands. In this position, the handle wasn’t helpful, either.
I think the best use of this toy is as a massager, perhaps with some slick lube or massage oil, being run lightly over the skin, much like a massage stone–if you don’t mind the lighter vibrations. Alternatively, you could hold it against your clitoris or other sensitive parts. Again, if you don’t need something with super strong vibrations.
As you can see from the product photos, the handle looks like it has a bit of a face due to the two ridges on either side of the button. This impression doesn’t go away when the toy’s on and the button lights up blue. For some reason, my brain sees this as bird-like, ha! The ridges help you to find the button but they’re not necessary, and I’d prefer a raised button myself than the single nearly-flush button powers the toy on and off (hold for a few seconds), and cycles through the settings. A second button would be welcome to handle some of those functions.
Continuing the birdy comparison, the contact points for the magnetic charger are on top of the bird’s “head.” Funzze toys come with a USB charging cable and no adapter to plug them into an outlet. This one was charged out of the box, and I haven’t had to recharge it.
Funzze toys also come with a storage bag, but the shape of this vibe makes it difficult to store in a bag, IMO. It’s made from silicone and can safely be stored outside of its pouch. There’s some softness to the silicone, and it attracts some lints, but it’s not the worst ever.
But when it comes to my toys, I want better than that, you know? An interesting design doesn’t do much if it’s not thouroughly thought out, and if the company can’t even come up with unique names, I have to wonder how much thought they’ve giving to design. A rechargeable battery makes little difference if I never want to use a vibe again.
I know this vibrator is incredibly affordable (especially because most toys have gone up in price over years), and I know money is tight for many, but I’d rather steer my readers toward something a bit more expensive or nothing at all.
Diy: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation
https://amzn.to/40ebzIV
from Amazon
I wasn’t planning to post another book review so soon, but I listened to Dr. Eric Sprankle’s book, Diy: The Wonderfully Weird History and Science of Masturbation, on a whim and I couldn’t not review it!
Dr. Sprankle hails from Minnesota, where he teaches, researches, and treats issues related to sexuality, making him more than qualified to write such a book. He’s been on my radar and follow lists for some time, so it’s wild that I think I missed the announcement of DIY last year. I wasn’t initially super thrilled because I’ve read a lot of books that cover similar ground to this book, including Buzz. And while Dr. Sprankle does discuss many things with which I’m familiar, such as the advent of Frosted Flakes or semen retention practices, he consistently does so in a way that prevents it from feeling redundant. I truly can’t say this about every book. Many books are a struggle to get through because of my familiarity with the subject.
Sprankle’s sense of humor, which he describes as “irreverent,” is certainly part of the reason this book was such a joy for me that I found myself binging nearly half of the audiobook, which he reads himself, during my first listen. That humor won’t be for everyone, but I get the feeling that the author knows this and leans into it because people like me, who do enjoy his wit, will enjoy the book all the more for it. The humor is consistent as Dr. Sprankle takes us through arguments and movements against masturbation, from protecting the children to porn addiction to sex toy bans to homophobia to the infantilization of older adults. The organization was so seamless, no doubt aided by the author’s narrative approach, that I almost didn’t notice the transition between chapters. With just nine chapters and the conclusion in addition to the humor, the book is a breeze. I finished it in just three sittings, and one was quite short.
Despite its relatively short length and many contents being familiar to me, I was surprised by how much Dr. Sprankle included that was new to me, including information about jack-off clubs. Yet despite knowing his shit, the author never comes off as condescending or pretentious. This is an incredibly accessible book that doesn’t require the reader to be overly familiar with research or medical terms. He wants readers to feel okay when exploring their solo sexuality because it’s natural and healthy, and so many people do so anyway. There’s just no reason to feel or pretend otherwise. I imagine many in the general public will like it.. as long as they don’t ardently disagree with the premise.
And people do disagree. The book addresses some of those people, including conservative, religious groups, and incels, directly. I especially appreciate the latter because most books of this nature don’t, perhaps because it’s a relatively new phenomenon. With that said, Dr. Sprankle’s nonchalance about the mythical risks of masturbation and the people who want to sell them to the public will likely ruffle some feathers. It’s why, I’m sure, I’ve seen a number of negative ratings online that weren’t accompanied by names or reviews. You can’t write something like this without making at least a little target of yourself.
I’m glad he did, however. If it helps at least one person feel better about masturbation, it’s worth it. If it can become a tool in the arsenal of professionals, even better! It’s the cherry on top that the read (listen) was so damned enjoyable!
When adding DIY to my completed list on Goodreads, I was glad to see that its rating is over 4 stars. This is the book that I’d love to give 4.5 stars to because I think books essentially need to be perfect to earn that rating. Yet, there’s no glaring omission to point out. Perhaps I just want there to be more to this book because I enjoyed it. That’s it. That’s the review.
P.S., I love the clever cover.
Sex in Canada
$19
from Amazon
I first came across Sex in Canada when another Sexual Health Alliance student was looking for recent research to incorporate into a class they were teaching. While Indiana University and The Kinsey Institute research how people identify and what they do in the bedroom here in the United States with their National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, the most recent information in this study focuses on condom use and young people. More generalized findings about American sexuality are less recent. I know that there’s a thriving sexuality research culture in Canada and thought that by the nature of being Western countries, there might be enough overlap that American sex educators or therapists could rely on Canadian data to fill in the gaps. This led me to Sex In Canada, a book published earlier this year by Tina Fetner of McMaster University.
Fetner’s book is the culmination of years of sexuality research, essentially Canada’s sexual census. Like Justin Lehmiller, who laid out his research about sexual fantasies in a book rather than a paper, Fetner opted to publish a more accessible overview of her studies. I appreciate this approach because it’s the first time Canadian researchers have attempted such a comprehensive survey of the country’s citizens, and they asked some questions that have been left out of American sex research.
Sex in Canada is still relatively short while remaining more accessible to most than an academic paper. Fetner dedicates a chapter each to sexual identity, frequency, relationships in which sex happens, sexual activities, pain–both wanted and not–and the social organization of sex before wrapping up. She also includes inline graphs for each finding she discusses in these pages. These choices make it easy to follow the research from basic to more advanced concepts. It also contributed to my quick realization that there are more differences between American and Canadian bedrooms than I initially thought. This latter fact is bolstered by Fetner referencing existing research, which sometimes focused on American participants.
Admittedly, it was a little challenging to get into Sex in Canada at first. It can be dry, and while Fetner provides some background research in each chapter, she writes like an academic and isn’t trying to create a narrative like a novelist. I don’t think a book like this needs to do that, but I’ve seen a review that touches on it. That said, the graphs and sections in each chapter make this book fairly scannable, and it’s easy to put it down and pick it back up again.
My interest was especially piqued by learning how Canadians go about sex differently than Americans. They generally seem to be a bit more conservative than Americans. I was particularly taken by the legality of common-law marriage after just one year in Canada, which has never really been a thing anywhere I’ve lived in the States. This approach means marriage rates are lower overall than their neighbors to the south, although they’re falling in both countries.
There are also specific demographics within Canada that differ from the U.S., starting with French Canadians. However, the differences aren’t as easily described as more or less sexually permissive. Canada’s government and academic institutions also have a specific relationship with First Nations people than their American counterparts due to our native population. Fetnet addresses this sensitively when she touches on First Nations’ sexuality and encourages readers to learn about the oppression they’ve experienced directly from the community. However, I could see how someone who wants to use this book as a primer might be annoyed with this approach.
For some, Sex in Canada may not offer enough to chow down on, but they’re likely expecting beyond the scope of a book explaining research findings. Fetner’s words are straightforward, lending to the book’s brevity. Her prose ultimately repeats the graphs, and someone could rely on the visuals alone if they want. The conclusion also sums up the previous research, and readers could flip to this final section for a high-level overview of what’s going on in Canada’s bedrooms instead of reading the entire book. But Fetner can only write about what she and her team revealed by their research.
Because Sex in Canada is relatively short and well organized, it would make a great reference book on the shelves or in the curriculum of many educators, and therapists might benefit from it, too. It would be especially helpful for those practicing in Canada or who want to discuss sexuality on a global scale, although I think some things do generalize. Casual readers may not find it overly engaging, and some academics may prefer a paper in PDF form to a book like this, but for those who need a book like this, I’m glad it exists.
The Rise of Digital Sex Work
$30+
from Bookshop
At first, Kurt Fowler seems like an unlikely candidate to write about sex work. As a researcher and instructor, he isn’t directly connected with sex work or even the general field of sexuality. However, as a criminologist, Fowler is in the perfect position to research and educate on something that is illegal, even if the topic is often overlooked by academia. Although I have opinions about our judicial system–including sex work’s illegality–I hadn’t thought much about criminology as a field before reading The Rise of Digital Sex Work, and doing so prompted me to consider it. Similarly, Fowler made no statements about his opinion on the legality of sex work. Although he clearly feels compassion and respect for the sex workers with whom he spoke, Fowler’s book is a platform for their voices.
From the very beginning, Fowler weaves his research into a narrative that includes himself. He’s a skillful writer, and this will be more engaging to some readers. Perhaps more importantly, doing so explains how he had to work to build trust with the sex workers whom he interviewed, including them screening him with his employer, and highlights the unique humanity of every single participant mentioned. For those who would rather read a more succinct paper with a more structured analysis of the research rather than relying on the narrative he crafted, this book might not be the perfect fit. But I think Fowler’s decision to write it this way makes it appealing to a wider audience, and that means more readers have a chance to understand the nuances of sex work.
Although the book’s focus is digital sex work in its various forms, physical sex work is mentioned multiple times. This was sometimes the case because sex workers did or had done both, including those who moved online because of COVID-19. It also naturally came up as sex workers discussed their privilege in relation to others, which happened frequently. Much like his participants. Fowler was very open about the class, racial, and even geographic privileges most of the participants experienced. They are whiter and more educated than sex workers at large, and their experiences and thoughts can only be generalized to other sex workers so much as risk is not experienced equally–one of the reasons Fowler suspected a more diverse demographic did not respond to his study. Yet he painted a picture of sex workers as generally thoughtful, intelligent, and compassionate people, something that may be overlooked or entirely denied by those who might oppose sex workers or the work itself.
In general, sex workers simply want to be allowed to do their jobs without the fear of criminalization, and more than one takes on arguments about selling their bodies by pointing out how this is true in many jobs. Multiple sex workers expressed a preference for the freedom and autonomy in these roles as opposed to traditional careers, some of which they’d left without ever looking back. Interference by police and politics was also a common thread in these discussions. In an ostensible effort to decrease trafficking, these people and organizations often set their sights on sex workers, who reasonably seem to think they understand the difference between sex work and trafficking better than those who make and enforce the laws. Similarly, the assessment that these efforts waste the time and resources of both the police and sex workers seems quite reasonable, and readers gain an understanding of the world’s attitudes and legislation through sex work.
Because this book focuses on digital sex work, Fowler dove into the use of technology used by sex workers, specifically screening and communication tools. The fact that workers must carefully balance communicating in an appealing manner with clients while minimizing the unpaid time spent doing so quickly became apparent. Like all of us in the age of smartphones, sex workers are expected to be perpetually available to those who want their attention, even when it is costly or detrimental. The workers expressed their annoyance with time wasters, including those who wanted free sexting and law enforcement setting up traps. However, the people Fowler talked to also showed their savvy when weeding out potentially dangerous or unpleasant customers, and the importance of community to accomplish this was acknowledged repeatedly. Furthermore, the sex worker community was repeatedly mentioned as a source of support for a group of people who are so often treated poorly–by clients, law enforcement, and society at large. It’s no wonder many sex workers do not reveal their jobs to protect their privacy and well-being. Online communities offer a place where sex workers can speak freely and reduce isolation.
It is easy to see how the Internet provides resources that keep sex workers safe like never before but also how the internet poses a risk and those resources have become harder to find due to legislation, which Fowler discusses. One sex worker whose work was revealed to her family and friends (aka doxxing) took extreme care to protect her identity when talking with the author because she knew all too well the risks that come with digital sex work, even though it usually doesn’t include violence against sex workers. As sex work has moved online (in part to avoid COVID-19), those who do the job have had to surreptitiously master online marketing and branding in addition to safety measures. Here, Fowler discusses some of the specific tools used to accomplish those goals. The author always respects digital sex workers as entrepreneurs or freelancers, whichever you prefer, and readers learn how much there is to succeed in the field, which shares many similarities with other digital work or arts that similarly require self-promotion and branding.
The timing of this book is prescient because so many people are more aware of digital sex workers because of the COVID-19 pandemic and the popularity of OnlyFans. However, Fowler found himself at a disadvantage because he wrote the majority of the book before the pandemic, which he commented on. If there were any area where the author could expand, it might be in discussing the increased competition and, potentially, visibility due to OnlyFans and the pandemic, which I have heard about. This would have required more time researching and writing, of course, and every project needs to end at some point. While the book stands on its own without a chapter dedicated to the changes in sex work ushered in by COVID-19, a dedicated chapter would be most welcome.
There is some room for improvement in the book’s organization, which could be streamlined. It is not pithy and is heavy on dialog. Aside from headings, there isn’t a lot of formatting, which could be used to draw the reader’s attention to or reify important information, potentially as chapter wrap-ups. I also wish that Fowler had been able to connect with a more diverse group of sex workers, but there is plenty of opportunity for him–or others–to expand on this work and accomplish that goal. While Fowler discusses specific technological tools or platforms in the book, an entire book could be written on the technology that is so pivotal in (digital) sex work, not to mention sex work advocacy.
The Rise of Digital Sex Work pulls back the curtain on a world that I am sure many people find intriguing. However, it could also be useful professionally, by sex therapists, law enforcement, or politicians, for example, to ensure sex workers are treated fairly and respectfully. It is a frustrating fact that people need constant reminding that sex workers are, in fact, human, and Kurt Fowler has done the legwork to produce a book with academic quality that can be used as a resource by anyone who finds themselves having to make that argument. I recommend it to anyone interested in the topic and hope to see more academics follow in Fowler’s footsteps.
Funzze Super Powerful Massager
$29.99
from Funzze
When I sat down to write this review, I realized how many wands I’d been trying lately. It wasn’t a conscious decision, really. Just what seemed interesting to me in the moment. Funny how that works.
Anyway, the Super Powerful Massager by Funzze will probably we the last massager I try for a bit. So how does it stack up? Is the name accurate?
I wasn’t prepared for just how large the Funzze Super Powerful Massager is. I mean, it looks big in the product photos, but I was taken aback. This vibrator is certainly in another class from the double-headed wand vibrator, but I think it’s the biggest wand I’ve ever tried, and and I’ve used everything from mini wands to the Magic Wand Original. Both the handle and head are the largest I’ve used. It’s over 13 inches long and the head has a diameter of almost 3 inches. This might not seem much larger than the head of the Magic Wand, which I also didn’t love, but it’s even longer than it is size and it looks and feels the part.
I think the overall size seems even larger because there’s a slight contouring of the handle. It’s thinner toward the center than at either end. In use, this makes it somewhat hard for me to find a good place to grasp the toy. I wind up. This might not be an issue with someone with longer fingers or larger hands, however. My fingers can barely touch at the thinnest part of the hand, where the buttons are. I default to the Miracle Massager, which has a smaller handle that’s easier for me to hold.
Despite its size, this massager is rather lightweight. I suspect that’s because the housing is plastic. This obviously isn’t a luxury toy, but at less than $30, that’s probably not what most people are expecting. The larger size and lighter weight may be preferable for some people, too. It’s a lot harder to get cramped fingers.
It’s still functional and rather easy to use, with a single button to turn it on and off and a dedicated button each to cycle through modes and speeds/strengths. You have to cycle through modes or speeds or turn the toy off to get back to the starting settings. I do prefer having arrows that go both ways. I’m also not a fan when toys start on the highest setting, as this one does.
So how does it perform? Fortunately, my vibrator died before I got around to writing this review. I suspect it wasn’t fully charged because I was much more impressed after charging it. The result was vibrations strong enough to make my hand ridiculously uncomfortable while grasping the massager’s head. The Super Powerful Massager is also as loud as its strength suggests, so I wouldn’t use this if you need to be super discreet.
While the vibrations, when fully charged, are fairly impressive, my anatomy just doesn’t love the shape of this wand. The head is so big that it doesn’t comfortably between my labia. I prefer wands with more of a cylindrical shape than a round one because I like the edge, which this toy lacks. If that existed, the larger size might not be a problem. But because I can’t find a sweet spot, the vibrations simply feel.. not as close to my clit as I’d like them. Despite the vibrations being strong enough to impact the entire area, I struggled to get off with this massager.
I also find the flexible neck isn’t as useful as I’d like, and that’s because it’s difficult to hold the handle. I suppose it works if you’re holding the wand from the side, but I’m more likely to hold it closer to vertical, perhaps pulling the handle back toward me. The curved handle on the Miracle Massager works really well for this, whereas this massager size and straight handle don’t.
One thing that I really appreciate about this massager is that it uses a standard micro-USB charging cable. Not only was this helpful when I temporarily misplaced the original cable, but I have plenty of those lying around, including the one that I always keep plugged in for my tablet. That cable proved to be a slightly better fit than the one with the massager, too. I’m not sure how long a full charge should take. And you may experience slower charging if not using the original cable. But it’s nice not to have to use a proprietary charger.
My qualms may mostly be specific to me. If you know you like massagers with large heads, want something a little lighter, stronger, or wireless than what you currently have, or need to pad your toy drawer without breaking the bank, this could be a good option. If you don’t love it, you won’t be out much money. New customers can also save 10% with code NEW10, so it would be even cheaper.
But if my issues resonate with you, Funzze’s Super Powerful massager might not be the right vibe for you, and that’s okay, too.
The One Flicker Vibe
$59.50
from Babeland
I’ve been using sex toys for nearly two decades now and reviewing them here since 2008, so it’s safe to say that I am rarely surprised by one these days. Intrigued? Sure. Disappointed? More often than not. But surprised? That’s not so common.
Needless to say, I found the One Flicker Vibe intriguing enough to try it. I wasn’t sure if it was going to do much or if the design was mostly a gimmick that is trending. But if I was going to be disappointed by something, why not be disappointed by something new?
I was surprised to not be immediately disappointed when I realized that this is a dual-ended vibrator. The base also functions as a standard internal vibrator, and I think the shape works well for clit stimulation, too. I wouldn’t call the vibrations super deep or strong, but they’re deeper than they are buzzy and inoffensive.
The vibrations aren’t really the star of the show, however–or what I want to talk about. I anticipated that using the flickering side might hurt because my body hasn’t been super receptive to penetration lately, including the traditional vibrator end of this toy. The design is wide and flatter, with a frame surrounding the flickerer to allow it to work. While the flickering arm is flexible enough to bend with your fingers, the frame is more rigid to keep its shape and does not vibrate. So if you’re looking for a toy that does both, look elsewhere. However, I found it surprisingly easy to insert this toy.
Using it is also easy because the button simply changes the speed of the flicking arm. Because I’d never experienced anything like it before, I don’t know if the slowest speed should be slower, but it starts pretty zippy and only gets faster from there. I found all but the first speed to be uncomfortable or painful.
But as it turns out, I don’t think I need more than one speed. While I can usually control when I squirt with fingers or a toy, including vibrators, the Flicker pretty much gave me no choice and forced me to squirt. I noticed it when I switched to a faster speed, but I think that was just a coincidence, and it would have happened anyway. I have to say the sound the flicking arm made when covered in fluid was ri-di-cu-lous.
I was taken entirely by surprise by this. I’ve never had such an experience before, and while it wasn’t accompanied by an orgasm–which I don’t have when I squirt–it felt like an obvious win to me. What I thought was a gimmick turned out to be pretty effective, and I bet some people would be able to orgasm from the Flicker.
So I tried to turn it off as fast as possible, but not before it cycled through a few more modes. I found the slower pulsation-like setting interesting. Flicker replicates the escalation and pulsation we’re used to, but instead of vibration, it’s a fast flickering increasing in speed or separated by pauses. But I already find most settings on vibrators unnecessary because they don’t offer much more for me, and the same is true for the flickering speeds.
The buttons leave a little to be desired, however. There are only two, and I must assume that more buttons mean more complicated and expensive to make. But it’s not intuitive to me that the same button you hold to turn this toy on and off is also the button you need to click to operate the vibrating end, while the other button only serves to control the flickering. Especially because while you can turn off the flickering with one button, you still need to press the other to turn the toy off completely. A third button to control power would make more sense.
I also wish that the buttons were a bit further apart. Perhaps it’s due to them being closer to the vibrating end, but if I’m using the toy internally and want to adjust it, I find myself hitting the wrong button almost exclusively, even though the buttons face in the direction of the part of the toy they control. If the silver band in the center of the toy is only for appearance, I would rather do away with it so the buttons could be more centered.
I also prefer buttons with nice feedback–a bubbly or clicky button, for example, is much more useful than backlit buttons–and the Flicker buttons fall short. However, I didn’t have trouble using the buttons with my fingernails, which is sometimes the case.
With that said, this toy is still functional, even if not perfect. I’m also glad this toy is fully waterproof–thanks to the magnetic charger–not because I like to use toys in the shower or bath, but because it would soon be ruined if it weren’t. Of course, this aspect also makes cleaning Flicker easier. You really want water to get into all the nooks and crannies around the flicking arm because there are places where you can’t fit a finger, although you may be able to use a small brush for cleaning. Fortunately, these spots are all covered in silicone.
If you’re interested in novel G-spot stimulation, especially one that I’ve found effective, then give the Flicker a try. Right now, this toy is a steal because it costs less than $60. But that’s a steep sale that won’t last forever, so time is limited.
