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Y’all know me: a bit opinionated and kind of a shopping snob. I mean, I love shopping, both in person and from the comfort of my couch. But I’ve been spoiled enough by some awesome stores to realize that not every sex shop is a gem, in the rough or otherwise. My local sex stores sadly fall into the subpar category because they fail to meet what I consider pretty basic requirements for any sex store.
I’m talking about..
1. Knowledgeable Staff
If a sex toy store or site doesn’t do everything possible to inform customers about sex toy materials, lube compatibility and anal toy safety, among other subjects, it’s just not a store where I want to shop. And it’s definitely not one I want to recommend to my readers or even friends. Sex should be amazing and toys and accessories can absolutely be part of that, but there’s potential for risk, and customers should be able to ask questions to minimize that risks.
2. Variety
Variety is the spice of life, but it also makes shopping more fun. Now, i wouldn’t expect a boutique store to carry everything, but I would expect to have some options. I don’t think there should be any category that boasts only a single product. How about a couple G-spot vibrators, you know? Not just a single bullet vibe. I also wanna see a few options for premium toys, too.
3. Cleanliness
No one likes seedy sex toy stores in person, but you know what else I don’t like? A site that’s cluttered and hard to navigate. Whether online or in person, stores should be welcoming. I like warm atmospheres and bright colors, not dingy overhead lights. If there’s no other option, many people will still choose the only sex store in the area, but more people see how convenient it is to shop online and avoid those unsavory places every day.
4. Transparency
A certain sex toy site that once worked closely with bloggers, including myself, fell out of popularity and pretty much off the face of the earth when it became apparent how shady all the practices were. Lies and smoke were blown around like you wouldn’t believe, and it left so many of us feeling angry and disenfranchised. I know there’s a lot that goes on behind the scenes that I’m just not aware of, but if a sex store isn’t going to be honest with employees, affiliates and customers, it’s not one that I want to support!
5. Inclusion
Had I written this post a year ago, I’m not sure that I would have included this, but things have changed. A shop that isn’t inclusive to people who aren’t straight and cisgendered is one that’s going to alienate a lot of people who I love. It’s not just good business sense — and it is — it’s the right thing to do!
Were I to add another option, I would definitely say competitive prices. I understand that not every mom-and-pop shop can keep up with the bigger companies, but exorbitant price markup isn’t cool. It’s one of the things I dislike about sex toy parties.
Not everyone knows where to find reputable sex toy stores, especially if you’re from a rural area or living outside the United States. For my non-American readers, I’d like to invite you to check out the following list of sex shops: Sydney sex shop, Toronto sex shops and London sex shops.
And if you know of a great sex toy store in your area, let me know in the comments! Plus, you can chime in if this post has some glaring omission!
A while back, I noticed that Good Vibes seemed to be increasing their book section. Maybe they’ve always had an awesome collection of books, and I’m not just talking about erotica and stuff from Cleis Press, which publishes my favorite sex series. I mean sex education books, studies of human sexuality and instructional books that expand on Our Bodies, Ourselves (also available from Good Vibes.)
Not all of these books are new, but most of them are new to me and a few are new to the site. This list isn’t comprehensive by any means, but it does contain titles I’d like to look into further (I plan on reading most/all of them myself to update this post with my own thoughts and recommendations in the future), and those that
1. Sex Yourself: The Woman’s Guide to Mastering Masturbation and Achieving Powerful Orgasms
I love anything that teaches women about masturbation. Let’s talk about the, literal, ins and outs. Let’s experiment. Let’s draw back the curtain. This book was published by Good Vibes itself, which has me feeling pretty confident in its content!
2. Wide Open
Gracie X writes about being polyamorous in a world that most definitely doesn’t understand or condone it. I most definitely enjoyed another book about the poly lifestyle – My Life on the Swingset. Wide Open might not be instructional, but anecdotal stories about “alternative” lifestyles certainly help people to explore.
3. Girls & Sex
This book discusses how young women of high school and college age deal with the sexual world in which they live. Again, women’s sexuality is so frequently ignored or worse, that I cannot help but feel curious about what’s between these pages.
Drawing on in-depth interviews with over seventy young women and a wide range of psychologists, academics, and experts, renowned journalist Peggy Orenstein goes where most others fear to tread, pulling back the curtain on the hidden truths, hard lessons, and important possibilities of girls’ sex lives in the modern world.
What Do Women Want?
Daniel Bergner analyses research on a women’s arousal and desire to determine what they really want. I first discovered this around the same time as Come As You Are by Emily Nagasaki, available on Amazon. She was kind enough to reply to me on Twitter about the comparison between the two books, which use the same data but draw different conclusions. I am already a fan of Nagasaki, so I might be biased, but I’d still like to read this book.
Ever since reading a smart essay on sex work in the most recent Best Sex Writing anthology, I’ve been looking at sex work in a more sex positive way. Playing the Whore sounds like the perfect argument to those who view sex workers as less than human and focus on legislation that hurts them, rather than helping them.
6. Cunt: A Declaration of Independence
I love language, and I love using the word “cunt.” It seems so bold to name a book this, but I’m not sure it should. Author Inga Muscio discusses how the word has changed over time and how we should reclaim it — and our bodies.
A how-to on romantic and sexual relationships? Why isn’t this something we’re taught from the start?!
Another offering from Good vibes, THE Sex & Pleasure Book is written by Carol Queen and Shar Rednour to cover everything related to sex. It’s got a 5-star rating, which only makes me want to read it more.
The stark cover perfectly complements the stark nature of sex. Few people offer advice to cancer patients in regards to sex and intimacy. Anne Katz does it in these pages. She talks about side effects and potential issues from cancer and treatments, and this is exactly the sort of sex education that’s practical and necessary.
10. She Comes First
My desire for reading this book is pretty selfish. In short, I want to pick it apart page by page and disagree with suggestions about how to please a woman. But maybe I’ll be pleasantly surprised.
There are over 100 books, including erotica and sex ed, that you can buy from Good Vibes. Obviously, it’s more than just a place where I get free sex toys, so add a book to your cart the next time you’re shopping!
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I couldn’t help but write this post letting my readers know about Lovehoney’s great birthday sale! You can save up to 50% off on items, both Lovehoney branded and from others. There’s a few things I’ve like to try and some things I already know I like.
Bettie Page Picture This Spanking Bat
1. Bettie Page Picture This Spanking Bat
The round version of the paddle I previously reviewed is less than $30! I’m considering it picking it up just because it’s so cheap!
2. Lovehoney Plus Size Captivate Me Wet Look & Lace Chemise
Most “wet look” lingerie is only available in straight sizes and looks pretty cheap, to be honest. Neither is the case with this piece, which also incorporates lace into the look. It love it! Just $30.
3. Embrace USB Rechargeable 7 Function Vibrating Cock Ring
A rechargeable, silicone cock ring that vibrates? Just $50, it’s a steal.
4. Lovehoney Spoil Me Satin Babydoll Set
Here’s another great lingerie piece! It’s just $30. If you don’t like the babydoll, there’s the Lovehoney Adore Me Lace & Microfibre Underwired Basque Set, which also has lazy touches.
Decent vibrations, silicone and a nice shape? I enjoyed the Cuddle — as did other reviewers. If you’re looking to advance from your starter vibe, the Cuddle is a great choice. Lovehoney’s anniversary sale ensures you won’t break the bank because it’s only $55!
There are more sex toys, bondage items and lingerie on sale at Lovehoney. Click below to shop!
Don’t forget thaty you can enter to win a We-Vibe kit from Lovehoney right now!
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My posts may have been slow, but I’m two days early with this one. So go me.. or something!
Babeland is offering 20% off and free shipping, which means you get a lot of bang for your buck. You can get a Minna Limon for $95 (review), the Boss vibe for $55 (review) or the Mona 2 for $111 (read my review). I enjoy all of these toys, and you won’t find cheaper prices!
There are also a couple new items that I’ve yet had a chance to try, and maybe the same is true for you!
Use code 20VIPS9 for the savings until September 7th!
Add some lingerie to your collection or replace your entire sexy wardrobe without breaking the bank. Stop over to Frederick’s of Hollywood to take An Additional 40% Off Clearance using code LaborDay40! This sale ends tonight! You can also save 20% on with code FRED20OFF. Ends 9.8
Adam & Eve coupons are always a little tricky because of exclusions, but you might be happy to know you can Save $20 Off $40 at Adam & Eve this Labor Day with Code LABORDAY (Ends 9/8). This doesn’t cover most of the high-value items (Lelo, Fun Factory, Minna, et cetera). However, you can get also get $20 off any order of $40 or more with free shipping without any code.
Bluebella Lingerie Lara Brief
Lovehoney has some great sales right now, especially on lingerie!
No code is needed for any of these sales! You can also get 20% off when you spend $20 or more, including these already sale-priced pieces! That means you can get 5 panties for under $20 excluding shipping!
This is also a great deal for anything you might want that’s under $100. Layaspot is just over $42. Try the Luna Beads Noir for just $31.19. The Fun Factory Stronic Eins might be the cheapest at $155, too! Or check out the gorgeous Vixen Mustang in Royale Purple for just $112. Check out my review for the large Lockable Sex Toy Case. If you want it, it’s only $34 on Lovehoney. Save $12 on the Bettie Page Spanking Paddle, too (review in this post).
I’ll be keeping my eye open for other sales that are particularly good and adding them to this post! Let me know what you pick up in the comments!
Good Vibes
Good Vibes has a sliding scale going on. The more you spend, the more you save! What does that get you?
The sale is going on right now so click the banner to shop!
Babeland
Enjoy a flat 20% off your order with code 20EMDW. Ends 5/25
Lovehoney
Save 25$ when you spend $25! This is a great coupon if you don’t plan to spend hundreds of dollars!
For starters, you can get the Stronic Eins for $146 or the Drei and Zwei for $150, the cheapest you’ll find them anywhere I think! Check out these items, too:
Le Mystere
Frederick’s of Hollywood
Up to an Extra 75% Off Memorial Weekend Clearance Event + Free Shipping. Valid 5/22 – 5/25
Adam & Eve
Adam & Eve – Take $20 off $40, Plus Free Standard Shipping with Code: SPGSAVE – Valid through 6/30
Designer Intimates
Save 25% with code HAPPY25. Check out my review for ideas about styles that they carry!
