Last night, I was lying in bed, and I was paging through sexual fantasies in my head, expanding some of them more than they have been expended before, and I found I was horny. I want sex but my husband has already been asleep for several hours. I ponder making a move but I don’t know what move I want to make. I don’t just want to make him up and say “Hey, want sex?” but I also don’t know what will wake him up and send the right message. So I toss and turn for a few hours until I cannot possibly stay away and longer and fall into a fitful sleep.
In a similar position, what is your foolproof move? Or, assuming you’re asleep and open to your partner making an advance, how would you like it done?
I love to be woken for sex with kisses all over my face and neck, or soft nibbling on my ears. I am much more open to sex anytime (as long as it’s not the morning) than my partner, though, so I can’t remember ever having successfully woken him up for sex.
ANy way would be fine. Some good ideas are oral, or just gently touching me. A little massage is fine. However, just climbing on top and getting started will get things going fine too!
Is this a trick question? You wake a man with a blowjob, of course! It’s also a surefire cure to stop snoring…
http://thebeautifulkind.com/2009/01/22/succubus-or-how-to-make-your-man-stop-snoring/
LOL. Honestly, oral is pretty much off the table when he’s asleep because he sweats OMGSOFUCKINGMUCH when he sleeps. It’s disgusting.
I’d have a standing agreement. Wake me anytime. Our relatoinship is key, needs feeding like a plant needs water. Never hold back! Ask if you like, but the answer is always YES.