He moved out almost two weeks ago. I am surviving. I have all the furniture so I am certainly doing better than him in that respect. d= I’m trying to look at the bright side of things and, to be honest, there are a dew things I don’t mind like..
Doing half the laundry.
Washing half the dishes.
Buying the food I want and eating what I want, when I want.
Not having to cook for two or share the meal I only made for one.
Not hearing the phrase “FML” every 5 minutes.
No annoying video game shooting the background.
I don’t have to share the TV.
I can set the temp of the A/C and the shower, however I like.
Having way less than half the mess to clean.
Not having someone so negative around all the time.
No need to worry about fighting.
Being able to decorate my way.
That’s certainly a good way to look at things. I am sure that the longer he’s gone, the more things you’ll notice you appreciate not having to deal with. Here’s a (((hug))) for the things you will miss.
I’m glad you’re doing OK. Only being responsible for yourself can be kind of nice.
As much as I know it hurts, I’m so glad you’re looking at the positives. <3
I was surprised when I discovered how much I actually enjoy the silence of being alone. Yes there are/were lonely times, but I was quite happy with NOT being obligated to hear the noise of another person.
Cheers to you for keeping perspective.
<3
That’s a lot of stuff on the upside. I’m glad you’re seeing the positives in a less than awesome situation. I hope you keep seeing the upsides and hopefully having all of those things to enjoy makes you feel liberated in some way. 🙂