Before and After Toy Wipes

February 4th, 2009

Before and After Wipes

This brand of toy cleaner no longer exists. You can use Afterglow Wipes (afterglow wipes) or Lovehoney’s Wipes (check out my review) to clean your toys and intimate areas, however.

Up until recently, I wasn’t using anything special to clean my toys, just soap and water. Actually, I didn’t really like having to run to the bathroom for clean up so I would often toss my used toys back in the box haphazardly and I wasn’t very vigilant about cleaning before use. As I type this, I actually find myself shaking my head. This definitely was not the safest or healthiest practice to be in and although I was improving, I wanted something even easier so that I would have no excuse not to take care of my toys ans Before and After Toy Wipes really fit the bill.

My search for a toy cleaner started at the bottled solutions but it seemed like they were still a hassle because you need some sort of lint-free cloth. So I opted to go with wipes and these are in fact made by the same company as Before and After cleaner which I also know is really popular. For me, I think wipes are much preferable.

My travel size packet contained 10 single-use wipes which are generously sized at 8″ x 6″.  These are much bigger than, say, moist towelettes and when you consider the area which some toys have, this is important. They’re also much thicker and more like fabric. The wipes are also lightly scented and I find the sweetness to be a little out of place. I think I’d rather use an unscented wipe and I did find that certain materials, like silicone, inherited the scent after use. One thing I like is that the packet is resealable. Lift up the flap to remove a wipe and press it back down. I have used almost all of the wipes and the flap still sticks perfectly so the wipes stay moist.

This is not rocket science. If you’re ready to use a toy, wipe it down. Let it dry and have fun (which is exactly what the packet says). Or, if you’re all done, wipe down, let dry and store for next time. These wipes take care of any lube, body fluids, lint, hair or dust which may be attracted to your toys (especially silicone vibrators and dildos). I was concerned about whether or not it was safe to use these without rinsing, especially because these wipes leave an extremely visible filmy residue. So, I have rinse with water sometimes which is okay because it’s still less work than cleaning but it’s hard for me to not rinse something when I can see the residue. With that said, I have used my toys without rinsing and I have experienced no adverse reactions.

The ingredients is small if not full of long words and includes:

Water

  • Cocoamidopropyl PG-Dimonium Chloride Phosphate
  • Benzyl Alcohol
  • Disodium EDTA
  • Fragrance

I assume the alcohol is what is doing the cleaning in this product but that doesn’t mean the toys are sterilized; if you can go one step further and periodically boil or bleach your toys, I would.  After using these wipes, I have noticed no ill effects on any of my sex toys. I’ve used these wipes on plastic, glass, elastomed, and silicone and they have worked well. I would use one wipe to give a quick wipe down before use and after but these wipes are meant to be single use.

The wipes especially worked well when it comes to cleaning up after anal play. They made short work of the messy situations which sometimes arise with sex. I know Before and After cleaner is often recommended for removal of smells and, with some elbow grease, the wipes did a good job of this but did not completely eliminate some smells. I wanted to toss these in the toilet afterward (and I did, actually)  and I’m not sure how safe that was. A wipe that is completely safe to flush (and said so) would be awesome.

I also don’t know if these are safe to use on me which I didn’t do but many wipes can be used on both skin and toys.

Although I don’t have any real complaints with Before and After Toy Cleaner wipes and they are definitely better than my previous cleaning routine, there are a few improvements which could be made to really buy my loyalty. If Classic Erotica were to ensure that these wipes could be flushed, eliminate the scent and film and clarify whether they’re safe to be used on the body, this would be an unbeatable product. As is, I would probably invest in these wipes again because they are just so easy and efficient to use. /

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Pleasurists #14

February 2nd, 2009


Tiffany’s Boudoir by Dev1l-5pawn found by Marla Singer.

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #13? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #15? Submit it here before Sunday February 8th at 11:59pm PST. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick


Madame Editrix
Scarlet Lotus Sexgeek

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Sex Kits

Lube/Massage Oil/Bath Stuff

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books

Adult Movies/Porn

Storage

Miscellaneous

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Respect, and how not to earn it

February 1st, 2009

A while ago (months, I guess) I became a member of TooTimid’s forums. I had found the site a while back when looking for sites which use sex toy reviewers (I applied, twice, and heard nothing back). I took a bit to get around to joining the forums and I found a fairly active community which was sex positive if not as contemporary as some. I enjoyed it, nonetheless.

After joining, I put my blog URL in my signature. I soon received a private message from the person who I assume is the site owner which said I could not have the link in my signature but it would remain in my profile. I was fine with this.

Recently, I went to update sometihng else my profile and realized my URL had been removed; I can only assume this happened back when I first joined and I had not realized it. I updated my information, added my URL back in and soon received another private message. The owner (again, my assumption) thanked me for being an active part of the community but said I could not have the URL in my profile and hoped I understood.

I did not and I very politely responded as such. I did not see why I could not link to my personal blog in my profile and, if he did not want that happening, he should edit the profile fields so it could not be entered. If he was worried about competition, I recommended increasing Too Timid’s reach and reputation as an online sex shop and community rather than being paranoid about personal blogs. I strongly suggested they reconsider what I think of as a ridiculous policy. I heard no response.

In fact, I have been suspended, without notification until “Dec 27 4746, 08:14 AM.” I can only assume that, by this time, I will be dead and Too Timid will be long gone as well. In fact, I doubt any humans will remain but I digress.

Rather than being mature, the powers that be chose to suspend an active and helpful member. I joined despite the fact that they ignored my requests to be a reviewer and gave my input to other members, helping them as I could. All I asked was to fill out a field in my profile which was, for lack of a better term, fill-outable.

This suspension really shows TooTimid’s true colours. This is not a company or site which supports community, in my mind. This is not how you spread the word of your company and make yourself viewed as a team player. This is not how you boost your reputation. No, this is how you alienate those who have the power to spread the word about your site (which TooTimid does seem to need; it’s not very well known despite the fact that it seems to have an active community and resources on its site). This is how you show that you are so insecure about what you’re selling that you must try to censor the mere mention of potential competition.

In fact, rather than ask how I think TooTimid might strengthen its public appearance or to do a link exchange, I was essentially banned without valid reason. It seems to me that not allowing for constructive criticism gets you nowhere fast. I can name quite a few historical figures who saw defeat because of this tactic.

Shortly before this happened, I was contacted by TooTimid on Twitter to be a reviewer (but no follow up contact was made). I know I was not the only one. I had thought it a step in the direction of community mindedness. However, after this, I must advise caution to anyone who might choose to review for or affiliate with Too Timid in any fashion. If this is how they treat an active community member, I am not sure how they would treat anyone else. If they is how they deal with a nonserious issue, I wonder what approach they will take with serious issues customers, reviewers and community members may have.

It’s no secret that I chose to stick by EdenFantasys after some mishaps on their part, because I feel there is much potential within that company and, ultimately, I think they try to be a community member. I cannot say the same for TooTimid and while I also cannot force anyone to decline an opportunity (nor would I think any less of anyone who does review with them), I can warn that TooTimid has a long way to go before they are a company I can respect.

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Absence makes the heart grow..

January 30th, 2009

Sadder. )=

So while I am unable to celebrate Valentine’s Day with the one I love, you can. Babeland has some great ideas for a naughty Vday. The red and pink toys fit the theme perfectly – like this Pink Rubber Whip or this set of Vibrating Nipple Clamps. I especially think these sex dice are awesome. But if you’re in the mood for something a bit more sensual, the Sensory Kit features the awesome JimmyJane massage candle as well as massager. JimmyJane also is giving away one of their second generation Form 6 vibrators (pretty in pink!) on the Facebook profile.

You can also celebrate a late Valentine’s Day if you’re the winner or Babeland’s hot date night contest, too.

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Seven Questions (Following 7 Reviews in 7 Days)

January 29th, 2009

Okay, so I had 8 reviews and my timing was not perfect but I still got the job done. I hope you all enjoyed and you can rest assured I will not be releasing such a stream of reviews in the future. LOL

I thought it would be fun to top it off with a little 7 Questions meme going on around the internet. Sienna tagged me a few days ago so here you have it:

Rules are:

  • Link to your host tagger
  • Write 7 things about yourself.
  • List the rules.
  • Tag 7 new people.

I am super detail oriented. And I guess the rest of the world isn’t. It’s strange to think that not everyone has a critical eye. As you can guess, I am somewhat of a perfectionist and it can be quite the curse.

I am a Gemini. I display the traits of the twins pretty well. I can be reasonable and irrational, controlled by thought and emotion, thoughtful and thoughtless. I have always felt like I displayed opposing extremes and this sometimes makes be uncomfortable with my personality.

I blog actively. I think that blogging in the sex blogosphere is more of an afterthought, a passive activity for some. For me blogging, in one of my many blogs, is active. I process everything through a filter which categorizes every action, idea and event as either blogworthy or nonblogworthy. I blog simply for the sake of blogging.

I am very much attracted to the Gothic aesthetic. I don’t look it so much anymore. After graduating and gaining some weight, I’ve had some difficulties with my look. Still, on other people and even items and for home decor, I love it black. Deep reds and purples are also a favourite. Velvet and lace are so feminine and time-tested!

I love body mods but only have 1 myself. This relates to the appearance issues I stated before. Also, I’m really indecisive sometimes. I thought about getting my industrial done for about 5 years before I actually did it. LOL

I can be super indecisive when it comes to shopping. I will look and look and look at something and love it but not bite the bullet for years – or for ever. The internet and its loads of products don’t help much at all. I think this is related to my upbringing; we didn’t have a lot of money so we didn’t have a lot of things. Now, I can buy more things that I want but I recognize the value of money and most of the time, I just let myself window shop.

I am bisexual. No, I’ve never been with a woman but I know I am bisexual just as much as I know I’m a female. (Actually, I may be more sure about being bi). I don’t know if I’ll ever get the chance to act upon those desires and I do feel a tinge of regret but I also have a wonderful husband who really loves to please me.

I tag: Essin’ Em, Sleeping Dreamer, Alpine Subdreams, Panthera Pardus, Thursday’s Child, Scarlet Lotus and Dangerous Lilly

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Woe is me!

January 28th, 2009

Feel free to pity me when you read my review of the Senso 6 Pak. I know I do.

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Too bad my birthday isn’t tomorrow!

January 27th, 2009

So, Big Teaze Toys joined Twitter today and I went ahead and added them. I own two of their “I Rub” products – the Wormie and Paris Duckie. The Bondage Duckie is the one I want the most, however.

They also produce some luxury items under the company moniker of B3 like the Tuyo and Onye. Browsing their site, I also see they have a new line of vibrators: Dai-Do. Dai Do products look really sleek in red and black metal. I am basically in love with numbers 3 – 6 and cannot wait until they are carried!

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