Hosting a Sex Party is the New Craze

May 5th, 2012

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The world is moving fast and there is no time to waste. But that does not mean that there should be no time to relax and let your hair down once in a while. Parties are a great way for having some quality fun with friends and enjoying without any inhibitions. Sex Parties are on the rise these days and these parties are so popular that many swear by them. Sex is ultimately the best relaxation that a human body can get and so combining sex and parties makes sense. These sex parties are not your typical orgies that are unhealthy and a bit too slimy for everyone’s liking. These are sex parties that have some fun games related to sex, some role playing happening here and there and generally an atmosphere of openness and pleasure all around. Of course the booze is there to soften the mood and some music that dancers can pole vault to.

Typical sex parties require sex toys or novelty items, as they are commonly called. These range from glass dildos that adorn a mantelpiece to some blow-up love dolls that ape some celebrity or the other. Even vibrators and other such stuff can be present depending upon the depth into which the party is intended o go to. Many bachelor (ette) parties are usually designed around such themes and slowly but surely, some regular weekend parties are also seeing this trend of sex parties catching up. Imagine a dressed up corner of the house where you have all the bondage stuff ready to be worn and clicked in. It will definitely make a spicy facebook upload, what with the leather boots, some cuffs and a whip. And in case you are invited to such a party you can always take some party gifts along, like a game of sex cards or some curio designed in the shape of a penis. Basically, anything goes in these parties and you will definitely want to get in on the action. Everyone loves to have a good time and such parties are a nice way to indulge once in a while. It is especially good for couples wanting to make a few friends in the neighbourhood, as there will be no ice to break in such parties!

It is so easy to buy party gifts too. Just log on to Sex Toys Adult Shop and order your favourite sex toy from the widest possible range available online. Your ordered toy will be home delivered to you discreetly in a matter of days. In case you are planning to throw a party of your own then check out all the novelty items on the list at Sex Toys Adult Shop and choose from amongst them and get a theme for your party going. It will be a great experience to share some extremely fun and whacky moment s with some of your closest friends. And you can even get to know some new people over a round of 3rd degree playing cards.

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Intimacy

May 1st, 2012

What I miss most about being in a relationship is not the sex but the physical intimacy. I miss cuddling and holds hands. I miss soft kisses on my shoulders, neck and back. I miss being so close and comfortable with someone that when he walks up and puts an arm around your shoulder, a hand at the small of your back of rests his chin on your shoulder, you don’t even flinch or blink. I am so incredibly envious of couples who are able to do this, of people who take this for granted. I hope that I never forget how easily that can be taken away and, if given the chance. I know I’ll be more grateful for it in the future.

It’s so hard and I know this is part of the reason I have such a hard time getting over the Hot Nerd. If I wrote him off, I was also writing off cuddles, the physical touch that I so badly need. Even if we lay together in eachother’s arms for hours, I’m not even to the point where my need is even begin to be sated. I crave touch so badly, but not any touch, a caring touch. Intimate touches. I physically feel the absence of touch, and if it doesn’t physically hurt, it stings emotionally.

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Sometimes I like What I Do

April 30th, 2012

An increase in writing for work has meant a decrease in writing here. It’s easy to burn out. A while ago, I put out a call, letting you guys know that I wouldn’t mind writing or working for you in a variety of ways. I received a response. So, sometimes work and pleasure cross in a way that is beneficial in almost every way possible. When I find great clients to write for, I enjoy what I do and work feels a lot less like, well, work. I have had the pleasure to write both an anal toys guide and a dildo guide for SexShop.net. This is the kind of work that combines all of my pleasures, and I hope you enjoy it, too!

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Why Dona Pisses Me Off

April 10th, 2012

Since I do a lot of shopping online, I like to know as much as I can to determine that I actually want to buy what I’m looking at. I want to know about size and fit and strength, and I do not want to have to send something back, because shipping is inconvenient and frequently expensive. However, System Jo seems to want to make it harder than ever to shop. “How?” you ask. I’ll tell you. They come out with an entire line of products that uses descriptions that any normal consumer would think refer to their scents but, no, these are the aphrodisiacs with which each product is infused:

  • acai
  • blue lotus
  • camu camu
  • goji berry
  • mangosteen
  • pomegranate

Never mind the fact that aphrodisiacs are a bunch of BS or that the company’s official statement is to refuse to describe the scents, because they want consumers to experience it for themselves. Boy, have we been doing that. None of the Dona products I’ve tried smell anything like the aphrodisiac and most of them have smelled down-right awful. I would have saved a lot of time and frustration if I had known that the pomegranate products smell nothing at all like pomegranate.

I find it difficult to believe that I am the only one who feels this way, either. It’s like System Jo is actually making it harder for consumers to find a product that suits them. However, if they had at least tried to describe scents, we’d have a much better idea about which product might suit our tastes, or smells as it were. Now, I’d pretty much have to assume all consumers should stay away from all of Dona’s products because they can’t be sure if their powerful smells will be agreeable or cause them headaches. Plus, $10 is a lot more than your$2.50 bottle of body wash from the local drug store, which you actually can smell before you buy.

Good news is, I have a bunch of Dona products that I don’t really like and I wouldn’t have to deal with, if it weren’t for this brilliant marketing move.

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My Dirty Little Secret

April 3rd, 2012

I use the same free porn site now as I did when I was a teenager. It’s based in Finland or something, and it’s one of those free movie clips ones. I’ve never subscribed to a porn site in my life and, as a result, I guess I got pretty good at getting off  fast. In all honesty, porn is one of those extras that I would feel incredibly bad about paying for, so I don’t. Even if I had the money, I would waffle over it for ages, like I do with purchase decisions that I make now.

So while some might turn up their noses at sites like BangYouLater, I say “bring on the free porn.” And at least BangYouLater has longer clips, not that I need more time, but I certainly don’t mind it to masturbate. Truthfully, I don’t visit porn sites as much as I once did, so I have to say that being able to log on and access videos or pictures right away, without the need to sign in, is always a plus. The less that gets between me and getting off, the better I always say. I’ve never actually said that before, but it seems like something I would say. LOL

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Totally Fuckable Tuesday: Carla Gugino

March 27th, 2012

I bet you all forgot about Totally Fuckable Tuesday. I know I did, and I don’t even know if the creator is still around, sadly. Every once in a while, I remember it. This time around, I remembered because I’d been lusting over Carla Gugino and wanted to let you all know.

Carla Gugino

Carla is an actress who has been in a number of movies: Sin City, Sucker Punch and Watchmen. I loved her as the first Silk Spectre. I think that was the first time that I really noticed her. I enjoyed her in Sucker Punch, and recall recognizing her. I ran home and Googled her. I probably drooled a bit. I recognized her once more when she played a badass lawyer in Californication. Yea, she slept with Hank, but she wasn’t like the rest of them.

Carla Gugino

Carla falls firmly into a group of women that I enjoy: 40s, stacked and slightly foreign-looking. She’s aged gracefully but she has these gorgeous laugh lines that indicate she’s no faun, either. Something about her look is also slightly masculine. She is a handsome woman, make no mistake, but she is a woman in every sense of the word.

Carla Gugino

When I think about Carla, I want to masturbate. Sometimes I do. My mouth waters when I think about her womanly parts — her clit, her nipples, her cunt. I want to be given the pleasure just to pleasure her, and I would do just about anything to do so. Something about her makes me want to submit to her, to beg for her. I’m pretty sure, if she gave me the time of day, I’d just melt and cum all at once.

CarlaGugino

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Changes

March 9th, 2012

I have made a small decision that has had a dramatic influence on my life. I decided to change the way that I view communicating with others on OkCupid and other dating sites. In short, I have decided to spend more time talking to people who seems interesting, regardless of personal attraction. I’ve found that this takes the pressure off of the way I communicate and I tend to come across as more fun. I suspect it will result in more possible friendships, if not relationships. It’s a good way to prevent myself from writing people off completely, based on looks alone. At least, I hope so.

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