Words

June 14th, 2009

Sexy verbs beginning with the letter “G”.

Grind, gyrate, grope, grasp, grip, gasp, groan, grab, grin, give, glide, glisten

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Formatting Text on EdenFantasys

June 12th, 2009

If you’re here because you’re dedicating your time and money to EF, please reconsider. This is not a company that you can trust.

Here’s a quick guide to formatting text in reviews, comments and forum replies, including links italics and bold.

Simply replace “Text” with the words you wish to use.

[bold | Text] Produces Text
[italic | Text] Produces Text
[underline | Text] Produces Text
[ http://google.com | Text ] Produces Text

You can also add images with the following code:

[img| cutecat.gif]

Add the URL to the image after the “|”

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Prostitution

June 12th, 2009

Sleeping Dreamer recent posted a thread/poll on the EF forums about whether prostitution should be legalized or not. Not so long ago, I was old-fashioned enough to argue against it based on moral reasons. Then I realized how silly that was because I don’t see what’s morally wrong for a working girl to provide a service to a customer. I just thing it’s easy for people to use a prostitute for immoral reasons (cheating) or immorally (abusive interactions) and, really, that’s not the fault of a working girl or even the industry. I’ve never known a prostitute to force someone to use her services at gun point (I’m sure it’s happened, though, and am not making light of that situation). Most customers have a choice.

Prostitutes don’t have much of a choice when it comes to health and safety though. I watch a lot of Law and Order: SVU and I think it realistically portrays the resistance prostitutes have when it comes to talking to the police even if it might be for their benefit. In that sense, I think that legalization may help sex workers who are otherwise (legally) helpless when it comes to protection against abusive customers and possible even murderers. Right now, there’s definitely fear of going to the authorities and this may mean illegal means of protection (weapons) or seeking protection of an individual or group but protection can be just as costly.

Proponents also suggest that regulation of the sex industry means keeping a closer track of health. Healthier conditions and access to health care is undoubtedly valuable. In places like Nevada where there are legal brothels, STD screening is commonplace and condom use is prevalent. Safe practices certainly lead to a safer industry.

Of course, legalizing the industry means being able to tax it. It’s certainly prosperous in some ways and the funds from taxation could benefit worthy causes like, hey, health programs for the sex industry? OR education. Or rehab programs. You name it.

Still, it’s a tricky situation. Just because prostitution is legalized doesn’t mean sex workers will all of a sudden trust authorities and it could even spur human trafficking as one poster commented. Just because it’s a regulated industry and health care can be made available doesn’t mean that it will be or that sex workers would take advantage of it. Some will but some certainly don’t care. Drug use and prostitution go hand in hand, in some areas, and results in many bad decisions. It would be virtually impossible to try to force safer sex practices or use of health care services, even if they were universally available. I mean, it would be unethical to keep a list of sex workers and even if you tried, you could never succeed.

I’m sure some would want to take advantage of health care and it would make a difference but I would still be a cautious customer. Escort services and brothels which are well organized would probably be the best solution for providers and customers alike. They already exist and tend to be safer than your typical street-corner girl. I see these groups as the ones which would most take advantage of health care and promote safer sex. Many of the current brothels would be able to come out of the sex industry closet and new ones would certainly form.

I don’t know how close we are to legalization prostitution. and I also think it won’t be a magic cure for the ails of society but it certainly could be a step in the right direction.

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On the way

May 31st, 2009

I don’t usually post about things that are on the way, even though I’m always excited about it. And I never really post about things that are here, either, except for adding them to the “Upcoming Reviews” list on the sidebar (and I’m not super consistent about that, either). Next week’s deliveries should contain a couple of cool items like Best Lesbian Erotica 2009. Every word in that title is just full of win. And since I’ve run out of Coochie Cream, I’ll be looking forward to Wet’s Inttimo Kitty Shave Kreme, too. And since I had such good luck with my K-balls, I’m going to give the Smart Balls a shot, too. I also thought I’d try the Eden Waterproof Body Blossom as I really like dual stimulation toys.

I can’t wait for the UPS/Fedex/mail men to show up!

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OohLaLa Fantasy Wishlist Competition

May 30th, 2009

I love free stuff. You love free stuff. Lucky for us, there’s always a ton of contests going on like OohLaLa’s fantasy wishlist competition. One lucky winner can have up to £500 of sex toy fun and, even though OohLaLa is UK based, international bloggers can enter, too. All you need to do is puck out up to £500 worth of items and blog your wishlist, complete with links to the products on OohLaLa’s site and the reasons for your desire. Two runners up will also receive a Sensual Starter Gift Box. So if you’re into free stuff, too, why not enter?

The Bondage Duckie (£32) is on every wishlist I have on every site. For a while, I also used him as my MSN icon. He’s just so adorable and so naughty but discreet enough that I just might be able to get away with him sitting in my shower.

OohLaLa has quite a few unique glass pieces, which I’ve never seen on any other site. The Bulbous Head Dichro Wrap Wand (£63) is more than gorgeous with its iridescent colours and twisting shape is truly a work of art. The Glass Anal Twister (£46) may not be as iridescent but it sure has an intriguing shape. There’s nothing boring about the colour or shape of the Twisted Lattchino Wand (£95). Even the name is exciting.

There’s also a couple sensual products I’d like to try. I’ve had good experiences with massage candles and this scented massage candle (£17) has a lot of scents to appease my critical nose. I’d go with Raspberry, Strawberry or Vanilla Orange. Jimmy Jane makes a pretty hot looking candle, too. The Pink Lotus Afterglow candle (£31) looks completely high end. Of course, sometimes I don’t have time to light a candle or my cats try to burn their faces off, so I’d have plenty of opportunity to use Shunga’s Raspberry Massage Cream (£16). If you can’t tell, I’m a huge fan of raspberry! (= Cherry’s good, too, though. I’d give Shunga’s Aphrodisiac Oil (£13)a lick or two.

And, without fail, I’d like some new rabbits. I’m a big fan of dual stimulation and while these vibes don’t always work for everyone, I have a tendency to make them work. Or else. LOL I’ve been eyeing up the White Heat Double Delights (£26) for a while now because I situate rabbit style vibes so the bullet is actually on my clit, not the animal appendages and this is actually made for that. Fun Factory’s Paul and Paulina (£44) also has a similar shape and seeing how much I love the other FF products I’ve tried, I think this will do just fine!

I don’t know whether or not I will love the Lily bye Lelo (£63)but I’ll take one in purple just in case. I’ve never used a Lelo vibe and this one looks so classy and sexy, I can’t help but drool a little over it. Another item I’ve never tried is a cooling gel like Kama Sutra’s intensifying gel (£14) which evokes a tingling sensation.

And it wouldn’t hurt if I tried all these things in the super sexy 3 Piece set by Wild designs (£34). The black lace overly against the light purple is exactly my style and makes for a gorgeous demi cut bra and thong. What better to pair with the included garter belt than a pair of fishnet thigh high stockings (£6)?

And that brings my total to exactly £500.

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Take me to Babeland

May 24th, 2009

A friend of mine recently took a trip to Seattle where she was able to stop by the Babeland store. I’ve never lived anywhere remotely close to a cool sex toy retailer like that so I must admit that, when I looked at her photos, that one got me the most excited. If you lived in Seattle – or in New York – you can stop by Babeland;’s brick and mortar stores not only for some naughty shopping but for entertaining and education events which Babeland sponsors. This month a lot of the events are in honour of motherhood, like the Sexy Moms Series which includes a talk on May 27th about Raising Sex-Positive Kids, by Amy Levine. There’s also events going on at both the NYC and Seattle stores on my birthday! I’d probably opt for Deborah Sundahl’s Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot because I don’t really think I need to renew desire. That, and, the pesky little thing with my husband being gone still.

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Sugasm # 165

May 14th, 2009

This is my first Sugasm submission but probably not my last.  My posts tend to be more appropriate for the Pleasurists list but I do like to think I write some quality articles here and there.

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #166? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
Blame it on the al-al al-al al-al-co-hol
“My legs were now spread and he was in between them.”

Dinner and a Show
“Before it disappeared completely, I gave it a twist at the base, causing it to vibrate.”

Sugarbutch Star: Matt (part two) – All Five Senses
“She takes her lipstick out of her bag and uncaps it, twists it up and paints her mouth subtly, softly.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Adieu ErosBlog?

Sugasm Editor
Sex Work And Honesty: Relationship Status

Editor’s Choice
A Long Slow Seduction Continued…

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

(Sugasm participants should re-post all the links above within a week. The following links may be excluded as long as you include all the above links.)

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
The Asshole Standing Next To You
Sharp Shooter

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Divini Rae Sexy Pictures – High Quality
Dunes
Jana Jordan
Laissez-faire (HNT)
Secretary is whipped by their bosses

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Back Home Tonight
The Best Friend (part 2)
Camera Shy 3
Drive Me Crazy
Not Enough #8
Her Favorite Positions – Part Two
Love Bites
The ‘N’ Word – a short story…
The Rossebuurt Gap Year: With Benefits
Skin
Spite
Strokin’
You Give Me Fever

Sex Humor
Lesbian Sex Coffee Analogy

BDSM & Fetish
At Your Service
Pornographic statue
Spanked on their delightful bare bottoms

Sex News, Reviews, and Interviews
Lelo Ella
Me and my Uniram
New Study Challenges Masturbation Numbers
Top Five Tuesday – FemDoms

Sex Advice
Firsts

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